How to attract the right person into your life when you need it? Or maybe you wanted someone you don't like to disappear from your life?
Then this one will help you effective method which I use all the time.
How to attract the right person
Every night, before going to bed, I lie down and do relaxation exercises¹ of the whole body, gradually moving into a state of meditation².
If, for example, I need to establish a relationship with a girl or attract some acquaintance that I need, in a state of meditation I imagine the person I need against a blue sky background. Then mentally, in a commanding tone, I tell him to appear in my life (naturally, this should be a familiar person) and meet with me.
Then for some time I lie in a relaxed state, and then I let go of this desire and forget about it. I also sincerely believe that everything will happen exactly as I need. After some time (always in different ways) this person appears in my life.
How to get rid of a person?
In the same way, this experience works if I need to get rid of an unnecessary person, there is no violence here, understand me correctly). I relax and in meditation create an image of a person unpleasant to me against the blue background of the sky. Then I order him to disappear from my life or not interfere with me in anything.
After my order, he instantly dissolves into this sky, and I see only one blank screen. It doesn't take long to make a wish come true. I just forget about the person, the calls immediately stop, and he disappears from my life ...
1. Subdue your ego
Each of us is by nature the center of our lives and should always remain so. To get the gift of trust in another person, you must give him the same natural, normal self-perception. The lives of others, no matter who they are responsible for, revolve around themselves. Not you. Take it for granted, and then they will trust you.
The most attractive side of trust is modesty, the humility of one's pride.
Robin Dreek
2. Don't judge
Respect the opinions, perceptions and views of others, even if they are alien to you and directly opposite to yours. Nobody trusts those who look down on them and don't understand them. Nonjudgmental acceptance is the most effective incentive to establish trust.
3. Recognize and appreciate the importance of others
Every person is inherently decency - regardless of his life position, - and to be worthy of his trust, you must admit this, demonstrate your decency and adjust. We are all born with a sacred right to our ideas, and no one is born with the desire to destroy or alienate others. Decency is the basis of human society.
4. Respect common sense
Resist the temptation to get personal, evoke emotions, argue, exaggerate, manipulate, or coerce. Stick to the facts, be honest and sincere.
Only those who rely on common sense, honesty and decency are able to create the basis of a rational community of interests on which trust is based.
Robin Dreek
Trust based on excessive emotionality will only last until the next surge of emotions. Leadership based on fear only inspires fear. Convince people that you are trustworthy and they will believe you.
5. Be generous
Do not expect to be given trust if you do not trust yourself. People don't tend to believe those who prefer one-sided relationships. Selfishness repels. Generosity attracts.
The most generous gift from you is your trust. The most enduring gift you can offer is trust for years to come.
4 steps to building trust
1. Align your goals
First, it is a reward that justifies all the sacrifices made on its altar. Choose it carefully and follow it strictly. Don't get distracted by smaller goals, no matter how important they may seem.
Second, get to know the goals of others and find good reasons to acknowledge their importance.
Third, look for ways to combine your own and others' goals. Try to make their goals part of the process of achieving your goal, and your goal part of their goal. If you succeed in this, you will have the power that is possible only by joining forces.
2. Consider context
To successfully combine your own and others' efforts, you need to know the aspirations, beliefs, character traits, models and demographics of others. These are the main components that determine the context. Find out everything and more. So you will understand what people really are, and not what they try to imagine themselves to be or what you imagine them to be in your terrible fantasies.
Understanding people includes knowing how you look in their eyes.
Robin Dreek
If they have the wrong idea about you, try to show the real you. People are who they are, so look for an appropriate approach to them, do not try to change them. In general, do not argue with the context.
3. Develop a Contact Plan
When you meet with potential allies, plan the meeting carefully, especially the first. Choose the perfect environment. Think ahead of time about the atmosphere, the nature of the event, the ideal time and place, your first words, your purpose, and what you will contribute.
Through well thought out and organized meetings, you will be able to build trust like a river that flows to the sea and takes everything that falls into it with it.
4. Build Relationships
To successfully align your goals - and keep what you've achieved - speak the same language, literally and figuratively. Words - and the character traits they reveal - are the main tools for building trusting relationships.
To create strong lasting bonds that help you achieve your goals, use language common sense, respect and attention to people. The language of trust is verbal and is not based on narcissism, judgment, irrationality, or self-interest. It - and the whole way of life - includes understanding, recognizing the significance and dignity of another, and helping. It's them that matter, not you..
Even if relationships change and goals are forgotten, the words and feelings they evoked can be remembered forever.
How to attract the people you need? 10 psychological tricks.1. The response to kindness, or the Benjamin Franklin effect
The story goes that Benjamin Franklin once wanted to win over a man who didn't love him. This man was looking for a rare book that Franklin had. Benjamin found out about this and lent him this rare book, and when it was returned to the owner, Benjamin simply thanked him. As a result, they became best friends.
As Franklin said: “The one to whom you once did good is ready to return you with kindness much greater than yours ...”
2. Ask for more than you want to receive.
This effect is very simple and akin to bargaining in the market. The effect works almost always. You are obliged to overestimate your requirements if a person needs you. At first, you are likely to be rejected. Don't resist, give it time. In 95% of cases, the person interested in you will respond again and offer a little less than you requested, but at the same time, it is guaranteed to be higher than you originally pledged.
3. Imposed desire to help
Reception, very similar to the previous one. In order to awaken in a person an independent desire to help you, ask him once for something that he definitely won’t agree to. Having received a refusal, you have created for yourself a person who considers himself indebted to you. Most likely, he will turn to you on his own more than once with a desire to help, because inside he will have a feeling of guilt.
3. The name of a person as a magical sound
Dale Carnegie, author of How to Win Friends and Influence People, says using someone's name in a conversation is an incredibly powerful argument. The name of a person is the most pleasant sound for him. Saying his name in a positive context, you grow significantly in his eyes.
4. Flattery is everywhere
She is everywhere and always. To begin with, it is important to understand that flattery must look natural, otherwise it can do more harm than good.
If you flatter someone who has high self-esteem, then you are more likely to succeed. Such people love themselves and love flattery, while they do not notice it. And those who have low self-esteem see in any positive ratings trick and deceit.
5. Mirror
If you want someone to like you, copy them. People with this skill are considered chameleons in society, from the outside it is noticeable how they are constantly changing and adapting to each individual. However, this skill must be at least a little developed in order to attract the people you need.
The work of actors-parodists is based on this principle. All celebrities who have been parodied from TV screens are often good friends of these actors.
6. Ask for favors from the weary
When someone is tired, he is more receptive to all requests. The reason for this is that a tired person gets tired not only physically, but also mentally. If the boss is tired, then it is easy for him to allow you to finish tomorrow, but you must finish it without fail and with high quality. This will give you some respect in the eyes of the boss. After all, you kept your word.
7. Start asking for small things.
It's simple, ask a little at the beginning, and they will open credit of trust for you. According to this principle, people become dependent on social movements. For example, at first you are asked to support an action against deforestation, you support it, then again and again. A trifle, but you are already ready to give more. Are you ready to support the action against deforestation in distant Tanzania or join the Green Party and make contributions.
8. Don't correct people when they're wrong.
Carnegie also wrote in his famous book that you should not poke your nose at a person's obvious mistake immediately after you find it. If you want to change the point of view of a person, then approach this carefully. Even if you have a loser in front of you who blames anyone but himself for his troubles, you should not shout in your face. agree with him on this moment and gradually try to change his point of view. Otherwise, you risk becoming enemy number one.
9. Repeat phrases and expressions the right people
This principle is akin to the “chameleon” principle, when a person repeats the person with whom he is interested in communicating with facial expressions and gestures. Words can caress the ear if they are like an echo. It is necessary to pronounce what a person has already said, what he heard inside his head.
10. Head nod
Scientists have found that when people nod while listening to someone, they are more likely to agree with them. They also found that when someone nods in front of him, the person, like a parrot, repeats. Thus, the nod stimulates the listener's agreement. Everything is based on our favorite principle of imitation... 
2. Act like you're already happy and you'll actually be happier.
3. Don't criticize, don't judge, don't complain.
4. If you want to find happiness, stop thinking about gratitude and ingratitude and indulge in the inner joy that self-giving brings.
5. Remember that your interlocutor may be completely wrong. But he doesn't think so. Don't judge him.
6. Know how to take the position of another person and understand what HIM needs, and not you. Whoever manages to do this will have the whole world.
7. If a person tries to use you for his own purposes, cross him out of your acquaintances.
8. If fate gives you a lemon, make lemonade out of it.
9. Never try to settle scores with your enemies, because by doing so you will do yourself much more harm than they do.
10. Do like General Eisenhower: never think for a minute about people you don't like. 
Do you know the desire to improve your life?
Someone wants to attract more money, get Good work, career advancement, improvement in relationships, status, so that a close and dear person appears in his life.
Do you each have your own desires and dreams?
Do you want the fulfillment of your desires, and as soon as possible?
But after the first impulse, you start to stop yourself, say: nothing will work out for me, all the circumstances are against me, there is nothing good in life, since life is unfair?
And if you often say to yourself: “life is not good”, then your negative energy will attract such events that will begin to strengthen your belief that there is nothing good in your life.
You yourself are constantly creating your reality, through your thoughts and actions.
Your thoughts are the energy that either helps create the desired circumstances or attract unwanted ones into your life.
When you feel good, do you think you are attracting what you want into your life?
And when you feel bad, arrive in a bad mood, maybe then you create around yourself something that you absolutely do not need?
Improving your life is easy, but you don't have the courage to make changes because you don't believe in them, you don't believe it's possible.
How many years have you been doing meditation and visualization, and what results have you achieved?
No one will give you enlightenment or purification of consciousness in one session or conversation. No one will change your life but yourself.
How to attract the circumstances you need so that everything turns out favorably
1. Ask yourself: “How can I feel happy right now?”
Go and do what you want and love.
One simple action will cheer you up!
It is wrong to think that you can only be happy when you create the life of your dreams. This does not work. We need the reverse order.
First of all, enjoy life, focus on the positive, no matter what is happening around you.
This will raise your vibrations and help attract the right events and people who will be ready to help you achieve your goals.
2. Clear the path to your dream
Get rid of fears, resentments, negative beliefs. Learn from situations that keep you from moving forward.
3. Let go of the past
Remove all energy blocks so that the desired life circumstances manifest. This inner work will allow you to create the life you want.
4. Clearly picture your dream
Don't hold yourself back. Focus only on what you want. Put feelings into the picture.
Ask yourself how you will feel when you get what you want. Feelings are an important component of attraction.
5. Believe in yourself
Feel as if you are already living the life of your dreams! The thought pattern already exists in your mind, so if you don't block it with your distrust and fear, it can manifest into your physical reality.
6. Relax and let go
7. Be open to your happiness. Enjoy
8. Teach yourself to create the reality you deserve.
It may not be easy at first, but gradually you will learn.
Each person has their own choice. Do you like living in the familiar world?
But others just take and change life the way they need.
To create the life you want, you must take responsibility for your thoughts, otherwise you will not be able to expect meaningful changes. You will simply repeat the same behaviors in new cities, jobs, or relationships.
How much do our ideas about life mean: our personal ideas, collective and group ideas, the historically formed ideas of a number of generations, embedded in us over the years?
Your world you get, first of all, from your parents - this is what you took for granted, without even trying to check it.
And is it really so or not?
What was the world for your parents, a holiday or hard labor? That is what he most likely became for you.
In order to change this process laid down over the years, start really working on yourself and see how your world will change, sparkle with new colors.
This will require your courage, but by accepting this responsibility, you allow yourself to create the life you want.
How does your energy affect others?
Do you know how your energy affects others?
If you project your negative energy onto people, then they are less likely to help you or give you what you need.
Is it possible with negative thinking to create what you want?
This is extremely difficult, or even impossible. Your destructive thoughts create a negative energy barrier around you and attract even more negativity causing your energy to drop.
You can see this effect in your daily life.
When someone gets angry and demands something from you, what will you do?
You will most likely take a defensive position.
You are much less willing to help bad person than a man who approached with kindness and love.
Do you think you can create the life you want on your own? You are wrong.
Although some events can be achieved by you alone, the great goals of life always require foreign aid and interactions with others.
How to attract the right people
There is such a law in the world - what kind of person you yourself are, you attract such people to yourself.
What could be the reasons for this phenomenon?
You attract to you just such people who reflect you. Otherwise, you would simply stop communicating with them.
What conclusion follows from the above?