How to disgrace a person throughout the country. How can you ruin the life of a bad person. We consider possible consequences

Betrayal, resentment, quarrels - all this is an integral part of human life. But it is always unpleasant when the offender is left without punishment, and there is a natural and fair desire to punish him. There are dozens of ways to ruin a person's life, they range from the most harmless to the extremely dangerous.

Ways to ruin life

It is worth being guided by the principle of justice before you start taking revenge on a person. After all, if you really decide to harm someone, you need to be aware of the extent of the harm, the damage that will be done. No need to poison a person if he took your place in the parking lot. You can arrange a kind of court session, where the guilt of the criminal has already been proven, and you only need to pass a verdict, which should be fair.

There are several options for how to harm the person you hate. It is worth immediately discarding everything related to magic and rituals- it doesn't make any sense. We need real actions that cause real damage.

This damage is often done through:

Use of social networks or the Internet.
Active actions to damage property (smear front door paint, break windows).
Moral humiliation of a person.
Using a phone number.

These are not even ways, but categories. Each of them is unique and includes dozens of options. Using the principle of justice, one can choose the type of revenge that fits under specific case . For example, if someone insults you at work or school, you can humiliate the person in return. This will not create a reputation for you as a vindictive and unscrupulous dirty trick, unlike methods that involve damage to property.

However, the majority will still choose property damage option although it is as pleasant to watch the shame of a morally humiliated enemy as to hear his cries that someone broke the window of his car.

And also an extremely unpleasant (for the offender, of course) way would be using his phone number. You can really get on the nerves of the enemy by constantly calling him at night. You can even download a special program and go to bed peacefully - it will do everything by itself.

Do not forget about such methods that can really scare. For example, intimidation, which includes not only anonymous threatening calls, but also good old notes under the door. Collectors use similar methods, you can adopt a couple of options from them.

Damage to property

Damage to property is the most common option. But you need to remember that it can become a crime if you cross the line. You don't need to set fire to anything, you don't need to blow it up either.

The following options are commonly used:

The main thing, as in principle with other methods, is not to get caught.

For such methods of revenge, criminal punishment will not be threatened, but administrative punishment is possible.

There will also be rumors, and all this together will put you in a bad light, despite the fact that the initiator of the conflict was another person.

Harm over the Internet

Everything that happens in the modern world immediately falls into global network and is being actively discussed. Even if the information is false. You can use it for your revenge. And there are a huge number of options for what disgusting things a person can do.

But you should pay attention to the following:

The Internet provides quite creative and unusual ways to harm a person. Knowing the phone number, you can use it for revenge. But there are also other ways that can be much more unpleasant for the offender.

We use a phone number

In addition to posting ads on dating sites, trading floors, you can use the phone number in other cases. You can intimidate a person, or you can draw the attention of law enforcement agencies to him.

To intimidate means to express a direct threat to the health or life of a person. it can lead to undesirable consequences if the perpetrator wants to contact the police. So it's worth knowing how to intimidate a person anonymously. For this you can use Skype program. It is often used by the famous Ukrainian prankster Volnov, who not only caustically mocked the victims of the pranks, but also threatened some. This program allowed him to remain anonymous. It is designed for calls via the Internet, but also has a function for calls to the phone. The main thing is not to indicate your number anywhere.

In addition, it will also be necessary voice changer software. All calls will be made through the computer, so a microphone is also required. When you speak into the microphone, this program will transform your speech. Thus, the girl will be able to speak in the voice of a weak old man.

Having these utilities, it remains only to think over the pressure line.

It is not necessary to directly threaten to kill or injure a person, then he will definitely go to the police.

You can simply express your demand, for example, that the offender quit, and then back up the demand with calls at night, leaving messages on the door, and you can also break his windows with stones with a note attached.

The second option is to attract the attention of law enforcement agencies. It is necessary, wherever possible, to leave the number of an enemy indicating that drugs are sold here. You can write on fences, houses, using a can of paint. A bold move would be to do it in front of the police station. The main thing - spread over a large area. And then this number will either be called by drug addicts who want to get a dose, or the police will pay attention to the owner of the number.

The nuances of revenge

Problems can come from anywhere: a loved one left, the boss is a tyrant who ruined his career, noisy neighbors. When an ordinary person who has not caused any inconvenience is subjected to vile blows, his desire for revenge will be completely justified.

But it is worth remembering that you need to act fairly - no matter how mean the enemy does. No need to be like him, it is better to act on the principle "an eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth". It is important to imagine the consequences that revenge can lead to - don't go beyond the law.

In addition, revenge must be individual unless the harm was caused to more than one person. There is no need to involve other people in the implementation of their plans, because they can tell someone about it, and this information will reach the enemy.

If it seems that you can’t cope on your own, and a retaliatory strike will not be a sufficient punishment for the offender, you can turn to detective agencies.

Some provide special services - spoil the reputation. And often it is the damage to reputation that causes the greatest harm to self-esteem and the general condition of a person. Specialists can help, but for a lot of money. But if you still decide to carry out revenge on your own, you need to remember the main rule - do not get caught.

Often, the personality of those who have joined in such a form of communication begins to degrade, and the language of insults becomes a familiar form of solving any issue.

Concept. What article?

Many social media users who are wealthy life experience, it is assumed that insult on the internet, either in in social networks if its addressee is found, criminal liability may be imposed. And young and careless people often do not think and do not assume that communication, in whatever form it may be expressed, can be punished. In fact, the situation is as follows:

The previously effective article 130 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, which imposes criminal penalties for insulting expressions, is outdated.
Punishment for unregulated obscene expressions and other indecent actions towards the victim are punishable.
The punishment for them is imputed under article 5.61 of the Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation for insulting on the Internet.

Such actions that may qualify as an offense include insults in personal correspondence.

Especially common are public forms of insults, which can be:

Obscene or obscene text addressed to the victim.
Offensively compromising photo and video content.
Insults over the Internet on forums, in comments, etc.

That is, according to the criterion offensive text must be made publicly available to other users.

What to do if you are insulted on the Internet?

First of all, it is necessary to determine that the text corresponds to the signs of an insult and it directly indicates that it is addressed to a person who has recognized himself as insulted. Identify the criteria for indecent text that will be required to write a statement.

Copy a screenshot from the screen where it is determined that indecent information is addressed specifically to you and that it accurately reflects your personal data (name alone is not enough) as an object for insult.

Identify the person who posted this entry in the public domain. As evidence of guilt, proof will be required that a particular citizen created obscene text in his account. This requires a third party who can confirm how the perpetrator typed the text or posted the content. At the same time, he must be sure that it was this material that offended the victim.

Can you be held accountable?

If you can prove the guilt of the person who offended you, you will have the opportunity to file an application with the prosecutor's office on the basis of proven guilt.

If you have the intention to punish the offender and recover non-pecuniary damage, you need to file a lawsuit in the Magistrate's Court.

To do this, you need to contact the police with the evidence presented and seek their transfer to the court. As part of this process, you need to write to the justice of the peace, to whom the case materials will be transferred, a claim for the recovery of a certain amount of money for non-pecuniary damage.

For example, a school principal, against whom an initiator from among high school students or school graduates committed an offense - the case can be taken to court. It will be initiated at the suit of an official:

If the perpetrator has reached the age of 16 years.
If his guilt is fully proven and there is indisputable evidence regarding this.
On condition preliminary work with the perpetrator in the course of the pre-trial settlement procedure.

However, such appeals are extremely rare, as they are regulated by many conventions. Even rarer is the recognition of such claims by the court.

All users of the Internet resource need to understand that, if necessary, law enforcement agencies will always be able to find out personal information about the offender of communications in social networks.

So risk your own name that can be tarnished loud scandal- unsafe. Before insulting or slandering a person on social networks, think about the consequences that can lead to big trouble.

Punishment and responsibility

If people who use obscene terms against other users or post content of similar content would be held responsible, the form of communication would not be so accessible and easy.

There is a price to pay for freedom of speech. AT this case fee can be expressed in the form administrative fine in the amount of 1 to 3 thousand rubles. it internet defamation punishment provided for users - civilians communicating with each other.

However, you need to know what kind of offensive expressions addressed to:

soldier;
official,

criminal liability may apply. It is provided for by Part 2 of Art. 130 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, retaining its relevance in this part. Serious, and even a term of up to 1 year can be imputed for such an offense.

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Other small nuances and details you can find below:

As tempting as it may be to insult someone you personally dislike, it's worth stopping and considering whether it's worth the risk I'm taking on my financial, moral, and in some cases, physical freedom.

And if you have been insulted, decide for yourself whether you will go all the way along the path of seeking justice or simply ask the administration to remove the insult.

160 097 0 Hello, today we will talk about how to humiliate a person. “Turn the other cheek”, “you can always agree”, “swearing with people is bad” - all these truths will not help you in life. If you already have a conflict and you can’t resolve it peacefully, the only thing that will help you is knowing how to belittle a person as efficiently and effectively as possible, so that he understands that messing with you is more expensive for yourself.

How to behave

To morally humiliate a person, it is not enough just to find a few phrases on the Internet, memorize them and use them. It is necessary that they sound confident, that they fall into place and that a person feels really crushed after them. To do this, you need to speak calmly.

Imagine that you, in response to offensive words, almost crying, shout to a person: "Yes, you are an imbecile!" It seems that you said that he was stupid and did it without a mat - but it will look more pathetic than spectacular. But if in response to attacks you answer absolutely calmly, without raising your voice: "How tired I am of your attempts to pretend smart person» - this will certainly not be the reaction that your opponent expected to receive and he will be unsettled.

In this case, you cannot:

Laugh at your own ridicule- it spoils the whole impression. Listeners themselves must understand that you said something offensive and funny - and laugh themselves.
Scream. If you raise your voice - this is a weakness, it shows that you are really hurt and prevents the interlocutor from clearly understanding your words. Also, if you're fuming, you may not remember that you wanted to sound smart and pretty.
Cry. Tears are even more obvious than screaming, show that you are really uncomfortable. Therefore, if you feel that you are close to tears, it is better to catch your breath, count to yourself to ten, and only then make your move in a quarrel.

If it seems to you that you will never succeed in acting calmly and contemptuously, practice in front of a mirror. Rehearse a mocking facial expression, an ironic smile, a sympathetic shake of the head. Find a gesture that will perfectly show your opinion of a person - you can, for example:

tilt your head to your shoulder as if you doubt that you heard the person correctly, what he just said is so stupid;
raise an eyebrow in surprise - as if you are hearing such nonsense for the first time;
if you wear glasses, move them to the edge of your nose and look over, as if you want to get a better look at the interlocutor and make sure that he is sitting in front of you.

Any non-verbal expression of contempt humiliates a person. Often you can beautifully humiliate without saying a single word. For example, ignore - and pay attention to a person only after a few unsuccessful attempts to get through to you. At the same time, you can pretend to be surprised and say:

"I'm sorry, I didn't hear you";
"I'm sorry, did you say something?";
"But I thought it was somewhere near the radio playing, and it's you".

The main thing is to look sincere and even friendly in the process, so that a person feels like an empty place, which is even difficult to notice.

What to say?

But ignoring a person is an art that needs to be honed and trained for a long time so that it looks really impressive and so as not to break loose in the process. For most of us, humiliating a person with words is much easier. The main thing is to choose them correctly.

Truth and sore spots

“Telling the truth is easy and pleasant,” said one book character, and he was right. But how rarely do we do this in everyday life! We will never tell a fat person that he is fat, or an ugly person that he is ugly. Politeness is taught to us from childhood, and that is why the truth can be so painful. If you hit it in a weak spot, it will definitely humiliate and confuse a person.

You should take a closer look and identify what the interlocutor is experiencing the most. It could be:

Appearance. Many people suffer from this and to humiliate a person without a mat is the easiest thing in this area. Maybe one ear is higher than the other? Maybe he has a big nose? Maybe he has acne, although he is no longer a teenager, or does he have thin, sparse hair? Maybe if it's a woman, she looks older than her age? For each flaw, you can come up with a biting phrase.
— "Have you ever tried to fly them?"- a man with big ears.
— “Yes, you can hang yourself on such a nose!”- big-nosed.
— "Madam, you are so well preserved for your magpies"- A woman in her thirties.
Low intelligence. Truly stupid people rarely feel like that, but everyone else can doubt their level of intelligence and suffer from it.
- "Are you so stupid from birth, or did you take lessons?"
- "When everyone was standing in line for the mind, you probably slept and missed everything."
“What is 6 times 8? Are you sure? That's what I thought."
Low earnings. If a person earns a little, this is most likely his weak point. But you need to look closely - if a person earns little because of his own ideology, it will not work to hurt him in this field. But others can be teased.
- "Let's go to the cinema? Oh, you don't have any money."
“Poverty is not a vice, as they say, but I could not live like that.”
“You wouldn’t even have money for matches.”
Low cultural level. If a person is not educated, he can be ridiculed with a special taste.
- "Who's playing on the radio, Bach or Mozart?"
“You look like you stepped out of a Picasso painting.”
“Didn’t Dostoevsky write about you?”
Most likely, a person will not even understand ridicule, but more educated listeners will be able to laugh.

For men, a separate point, often a weak point is potency. In a dispute with an opponent, you can humiliate a person by saying that he is so angry because he is not able to satisfy a woman in bed. Or say something like “If in bed you were such a lion as here, the girls would follow you in herds.”

For women, the weak point is often external attractiveness. You can hint to her that she looks old, fat, or has small breasts - and if done gently and sympathetically, it will be doubly humiliating.

The main thing is the ability to observe, draw conclusions and hit exactly the weak spot that hurts a person.

Demonstration of your superiority

People don't like being shown that they are worse than others. Because very effective tool humiliation will show that you are better at something.

You can use more expensive things, you can mention that you were on vacation or in an interesting place - but in such a way that it does not look like boasting, but something completely natural for you.
You can wear expensive clothes.
You can even invite an unpleasant person to participate in an event for which he obviously does not have enough money, and enjoy his reaction.

Reminders and revelations

If you have a good memory, you can perfectly put others in their place by reminding them of the stupid or shameful things they have done, as well as the stupid things they have said and the puddles they have sat in.

You can even make them look like fools in front of mutual acquaintances by divulging some secret and genuinely surprised by the negative reaction - “Oh, well, I thought we were all our own here, what are you ashamed of”.

The main thing is to make excuses with the best intentions, so that in the eyes of others you don’t turn into a bore who reminds everything good man about his mistakes.

How to besiege a person

How to close the mouth of a person you know is easy to come up with. But what if you see your opponent for the first time and do not know anything about his weak points?
In this case, phrases that humiliate a person will come to the rescue.

How to humiliate a man who meets on the street?

Beautiful girls often suffer from monotonous attempts to get acquainted - many men simply do not understand that they do not want to hear and see them. Therefore, you can use biting phrases:

To you or to me? I suggest: you go to your place, I go to my place, and everyone is happy!
No, I don't want to meet you. I will be bored with you, but you will not understand me.
Yes, you are just a wonderful comedian! If you joke funny, it's already a miracle.
I admire you! With such a face, I would spend my whole life under the covers, but you are okay, even on the street trying to get acquainted ...
Try dating in the dark. No fool will give you a phone in the light.

The main thing is to have an expression of bored superiority on your face. Or you can completely ignore the attempt to get acquainted - answer "yes", "of course" and give the phone number of the nearest morgue.

How to humiliate a mistress or a lovebird

Most women are in awe of their appearance - and how decent they look in the eyes of society. Therefore, you can use the phrase:

You must have been beautiful. Men so twenty ago.
There are injustices - and there is no mind, and there is nothing to compensate.
God created all women from a rib, but you, it seems, from an ass.
It's a shame to offend you - the mirror offends you every day.

The main thing in the process is to look better - and this will be an additional humiliation for the opponent.

How to humiliate a subordinate who forgot about subordination

In a work team, quarrels are not uncommon, and sometimes you can find a situation in which a subordinate forgets about his place and starts a dispute with his superiors in a raised voice. You can't let that happen - but you can't sound unprofessional either. You can use the following phrases:

Don't make me regret the day I hired you.
It looks like you just lost your bonus.
You are a disgrace to our firm and pull the entire team back.
With workers like you, we will never succeed.
Perhaps you should consider and continue your career somewhere else?
It looks like the company is overpaying you - with this level of professionalism, you don't deserve this level of salary.

Arguing with a subordinate at his level is a gross mistake. You should speak weightily and nip the dispute in the bud, under the threat of dismissal, so as not to drop your authority.

How to humiliate a partner who cheated

To hurt a person who has committed adultery is a natural impulse, after the implementation of which it may even become easier for you. Phrases can be used:

No need to make excuses - do not humiliate yourself even more.
I do not want to share with you any more table or bed - what can you find in you at all?
It was so stupid to believe in your honesty that now I hate to even think about it.
For someone who is doing so badly, you surprisingly easily traded me for a couple of pleasant nights.

Each of us always knows more about a partner than about everyone else - and in case of betrayal, this knowledge can be applied. What is he afraid of? What does he not like about himself? In what situations was he a fool? All this can be remembered and thrown in his face at parting.

How to call a person

Just telling a person that he is a fool is childish. Using swear words is ugly and embarrassing in public. Therefore, you can use other options - said with a due degree of confidence in their rightness and coldness, they can sound great, despite some old-fashionedness:

stupid (non-stupid) being- a man who is even unworthy of the title of a man in his stupidity;
animal (you can add the adjective "dirty", "useless", "evil")- a person who has risen on the same level with unreasonable cattle;
bastard- a man low and vile, devoid of conscience;
shameless, shameless- a man without any shame;
reptile- a person whose qualities are more reminiscent of a slimy reptile;
livestock- a person is stupid and incapable of reasonable actions;
carrion- a person who has nowhere to go lower;
imbecile- a person whose mental development is equal to the development of a mentally retarded person;
empty talk or empty talk- a person who talks in vain.

Words should always be applied to the place, otherwise you will not be dishonored for long.

How to say that a person is stupid

Calling a person stupid is boring, unoriginal, and not offensive at all. Beautiful connected phrases are much more effective:

Are you always such a fool, or is it just me that's so lucky?
Don't be upset! Cuttlefish don't have a brain at all, but they do live.
Go on my friend. According to the theory of probability, someday you have to say something meaningful.
Have you thought about something? This is something new!
Don't try to think, dear, otherwise you'll get a headache out of habit.
I don't know what tool you use to be such a fool, but you should patent it since it works so well.
I know you're not as stupid as you might think by looking at your face. It would be simply impossible.

If a person is really stupid, he simply will not understand more complex indications of this fact. So you can not bother and use simple obvious phrases.

How to humiliate a person with smart words

Smart and well-aimed phrases are always useful to remember - then, in the event of an unexpected attack, you can answer the offender harshly and bitingly. The psychology of the humiliated is such that he will not want to repeat this experience. The main thing is not to be shy and not to be afraid to offend a person.

Do you still work there? And all the same? Well, at your age you can still plow and plow, I believe you will succeed.
And I would like to answer you, yes, nature has already avenged me.
You definitely need to add fish to your diet. It is good for the intellect.
If you want to hurt me, you'll have to say something smart. I don't think you can, however.
Are you joking like that? I'm sorry, I didn't understand right away.

The main thing in all phrases is to apply them in a timely manner, sound confident and not be afraid of rebuff. And if you don’t want to get into an argument, you can simply answer “yes”, “of course” and “did you say something?” and with all appearance to show the interlocutor that he is worthless - this is also humiliating enough to use.